Thank you very much,
I am afraid it's not that. Everything sits in place and seems to work well. I am now desperately trying to change every part one by one. Disassemble, switch one CGW part for OEM and assemble again the whole gun. So far I tried the sear, disconnector, the roller bushing (three times since I have 3), the decocker itself and even all pins. I of course got some problems with the OEM disconnector, it messed up my SA function, but the hammer still fell all the way when I tried to decock it.
So what else is there? I can try to swap the trigger bar, but I only have another OEM one to try.
The fact is the pro grade kit was working without any problems in the p-07, but fails to decock in the p-09. There must be something...
Anyway, thank you for your time.