Thanks man, oh it's not that bad, tell the dude to put on his man-panties and hit the gym! LOL It's certainly not as much recoil as my plastic XD Mod 2 sub-compact .45. It's a robust little gun, it has made me gravitate more towards all steel compact .45's, I like the weight of it. Just shot a box through it today. Never a problem. Been carrying it for a few days now. Really nice SA pull but pretty long DA if you are trying to milk it slowly to the break. Found the faster I shot the more accurate I shot. Been practicing carrying/drawing/shooting it in condition one anyway so the long DA pull doesn't even come into play.