I haven't been on here for awhile, since I've been down at the SHOT Show in Vegas.
Speer does/did make a Gold Dot for the 357 Sig (I have some), and it will shoot fine in the 9x19, as long as they aren't loaded too long. If the OAL is too long, the ogive will contact the leade and keep them from properly chambering.
Just load these with data for the same weight bullet (124/125 gr., it won't make any difference) and make sure after you load the first round that they will fully chamber before you load the rest.
These are a great bullet, especially in 357 Sig, but loaded properly in 9x19, they will work fine there, too.
Hope this helps.
Fred