The nitride is superior in overall durability. Period. Again, I hammered my slide with a punch more than a few times and if it was Cerakote, it would have left the scene. AND... the nitride is a finish that penetrates the surface, so even when abraded so that the color is gone, it is still there protecting. Paint is a surface thing - it does NOT penetrate. Once it is abraded to the metal, so is its protection.
Now, you want the best paint? - use Cerakote.