What was the actual max - - the length at which it touched the rifling.
That measurement is your exact chamber length for that bullet in that barrel. I use mixed brass so I grabbed 4 random cases for this test
1.1425
1.1465
1.1410
1.1490
subtract at least 0.015" from that number to obtain your Maximum Usable OAL.
A .015 cushion to allow for variation and ensure you stay out of the lands is a good rule of thumb for new reloaders, or old reloaders who are not accustomed to dealing with OAL.
Once you know how tight your gear and your arm will keep OAL, you can lower that a bit. I start with .010 by default, and I can cut that to .005 if I like, no worries.
Remember that OAL is from the base of the case to the nose, but the nose never touches anything directly. It's the point on the ogive just above the shoulder that makes first contact with the rifling that we are worried about. And that is far more consistent from bullet to bullet than the nose. Those numbers you provided above have an extreme spread of .008. I guarantee the spread wouldn't be that big if you could measure precisely to the point on the ogive that makes contact. The reality is that your bullets are going to be a hair different in length at the tippy tip. Takes only a small lump in the coating to add a thousandth or two.
I would recommend you measure bullets outside the case, and conduct that same test with bullets that measure exactly the same length.
Also, load one to 1.160 in a dummy round. Size the case, no primer no powder, flare, seat the bullet to 1.160, crimp to .378. Then see if that cartridge will plunk and spin freely in the chamber. If it does not, seat it two or three thousandths and try again, and again, and again until it spins freely while inserted all the way. And when it spins freely, take that measurement.