In over 45 years of loading 9x19, I have never found a gun with a chamber that would not easily feed 0.358" lead bullets. If they don't fit, I would bet there was a reloading problem and not a bullet problem (scraped lead, crooked bullet seating, COL was not fine-tuned for bullet, etc.).
For all my 9x19s, I shoot either as-cast lead bullets or 0.358" lead bullets. These are fired in S&W, P-08s, P-38s, BHP, and CZs with not a single issue.
Back when I got my first BHP, 9x19 was NOT a popular cartridge and there were almost NO 0.355" bullets. So every reloader at that time HAD to use 130gn 0.356" .38 Super bullets or 0.357" jacketed .38 bullets and no one I knew then ever had a problem. I still like 0.357" jacketed bullets the best for 9x19, 9x21, and .38 Super.
I have hit cases where the walls were so thin they didn't get sized down (so the bullet wasn't under tension in the case), but never a case with walls too thick.