I just saw your post and will throw in my two cents. I love my 75 series pistols, but they might not fit your needs. You might look at the CZ P-10S. It's a polymer gun that should fit your small hands and will be easier to rack with its conventional slide setup. Would be a good carry weapon for you.
If you can bring yourself to buy something other than CZ then the S&W Shield EZ would be a good choice. It was made specifically to be easy to operate.
If you really have your heart set on a 75, and I can't blame you for that, I highly recommend you wait till you can get your hands on one and try it out.