Do you pull the slide to the rear and let it go?
Or hit the slide release and let it go?
Either should chamber, completely.
Are you grabbing the slide, pulling to the rear and then "riding" the slide forward to chamber the round. "Riding" means holding on to the slide and easing it forward.
I have a pistol, or three, that are still tight enough that if I ride the slide forward even with no round to chamber they'll stop just short of the slide being fully forward.
Notice the slide hanging back over the frame just a bit. I small push of the thumb moves it all the way forward and the barrel will move up into position. When just letting the slide fly forward to chamber the round it always goes completely forward.