Welcome,
for what its worth, sometimes you have to do some work as in leave your town to get an answer. I would make it like a short vacation. Do your homework and start calling/emailing shops and see what they have if any. Plot them on a map and then do a road trip. If you need to do an overnight stay, make happen.
Do you have any shooting clubs in your area? how about any shooting instructors? Maybe female? have you looked down that route to see if any of the clubs have instructors and they maybe able to help.
If you have any shooting ranges in your area, then i would see what they have to offer. Again, if you need to make a weekend of it, do so. See if any of the surrounding areas have a shooting range and see what they offer if any.
Do you have any shooting friends? Maybe co workers that shoot? friends/family? Ask them.
i understand its not the answer you dont want to see, but the way i see it, its that if you dont get what will fit your hand, whatever that maybe, you wont want to shoot it much or use to play/practice if at all.
good luck