Okay, I've been to the range on Wednesday and I can say that I'm 99.9% sure that I fixed the issue. Finally, for the love of god.
What happened:
* packed a lot of different ammo (124gr, 140gr, 147gr, 154gr - flat nose, round nose, different manufacturers - S&B, limit.cz, Gecko)
* modifications made to the gun since last time - took out and fully cleaned the extractor and polished the feed ramp
* took a brand new mag as well
I started shooting with the new mag. As I experienced no malfunctions even with the dreaded last round in the mag, I wondered. After shooting through one box of ammo, I started to check out the factory mags. No issues whatsoever. I shot 100, then 150, then 200 rounds no problem. The gun felt better, the slide closing (during firing or just after insterting a mag) felt snappy, non-dragging if you will.
That lead me to a conclusion - this must be the extractor. Because that's what people mostly suggested here and on the other places on the internet.
But then something happened. I think it was the 7th box of ammo (I've run multiple ones, this was the 140gr ammo that I shot no problem at the beginning of the range session). Failure to feed again. I felt so sad, because it kept happening. After a few of those, I was cleaning a stuck round and I noticed something - the feed ramp was so so dirty. Like when I polished it it was silver, shiny. Now it was black. I know, obvious. But the amount of gunk there was actually surprising to me. I guess I've never shot that many rounds through one gun in one range session. This prompted me to quickly take it apart, I've had some CLP in the bag (I use different chemicals at home) and Q-tips. I have it a few wipes with CLP on the Q-tip - I wasn't able to get the gunk out, just slightly. Reassembled and boom - again no malfunctions. After shooting 100 rounds more, there were occasional FTFs as well - but this I'm sure was to the fact that I wasn't able to clean it properly. So I think I can say:
IT'S THE FEED RAMP
I think it may have some irregularities from the factory. Maybe it was angled slighty wrong. But just polishing it - nothing too invasive, a gentle polish, 1500 grit and the issue was gone like magic. Funny thing is, I do polish the feed ramps on all of my handguns, but I left this particular one be because "oh, this is my favourite gun, I don't wanna mess with it". I still have some testing to do, but I can pretty much say that the issue is resolved.
Thanks to all of you guys that have helped me in this thread! @EndangeredSpecies, you may wanna try this on your gun as well. I will go to the range again on Wednesday and try to confirm, but I think like 300-400 rounds is a good sample size.
I have two questions:
1. Well, do you guys think this is it, the feed ramp?
2. If so, do you think I should polish it a lil' more? (just to maybe increase the number of rounds that can be fired through a very dirty gun on one range session before the FTFs happen again)?