There are several options, one being a fanny pack, which, of course, screams "GUN!" to anyone who knows, the purse carry, which means your only meansof protection can be snagged away from you faaaaast, or lost/compromised when the purse is set down. Little fingers can explore, so this would be a very bad idea anywhere there are/could be small children.
Eric at HBE Specialty Leatherworks could build a custom rig for you, which I reccomend. Also, some companies, like Galco, offer rigs specifically for women, although Galco offers little but holster purses and belt slides for the Compact. Try High Noon Holsters, too. Finding the perfect rig is the hardest part!