Let me try to sum things up:
Many folks say the SLIDE STOP is the proper name, not SLIDE RELEASE, and its intended to hold the slide OPEN, not to release the slide.
The proper use of that little lever is a point of continuing debate across gun forums. But, the device is generally called the SLIDE STOP in most parts lists. And some purists will tell you that you should NEVER use anything but the sling-shot method to release the slide.
Angus Hobdell (and many gun enthusiasts who know something about the inner workings of guns) suggest you should never drop the slide on an empty gun with full force -- the very thing you're doing. At best, you should do it by hand, slowly, so that the sear/hammer doesn't potentially get damaged.
One acquaintance is one of several trainners (a professional shooter and instructor) who works with a firm training our combat troops, including special ops, in how to use weapons in combat.
They're not working with recruits, but with experienced soldiers, many of whom have seen combat and who are trying to improve their skills. These instructors teach them to use the slide stop to release the slide, not the slingshot method. That's because they've found that in combat, under stress, pressure, etc., many folks using the slingshot method end up with a gun that hasn't gone into battery.
The slide stop/slide release on your gun shouldn't be that hard to use when used as intended (when releasing the slide on a newly inserted FULL mag), but your particular application may be one that is less common (i.e., closing the slide on an empty magazine) and not one that the CZ slide release/slide stop is optimized for.
Assuming, as you seemingly do, that all guns are alike in this, is not correct. That's sort of like comparing a Browning Hi-Power 32 pound mainspring (hammer spring) to the CZ 19 pound hammer spring and wondering why the CZ spring is sooo much weaker. (It isn't; different gun designs require different mechanisms and springs; a 32 pound hammer spring in a Double Action makes it very hard to use.)
I guess you've found a quirk of the CZ design. Every gun generally has a quirk -- you don't always find it right away.