noleman, you should be able to just pull the trigger without racking the slide at all, with the gun empty try racking the slide and pulling the trigger in SA, the hammer will fall, then try the full DA pull from there. if you can't pull it, explain what you are felling and where it stops you pulling it, ie, does it move the hammer at all,
also just to check, it you thumb the hammer back, does the trigger follow it back?
to get to loaded hammer down DA status, you have to rack the slide to load and thumb the hammer down while pulling the trigger. sounds like you doing that part ok.