If you like the "idea" of the 124grn, but still want to go a wee tad heavier, then several bullet makers are offering 130grn and 135grn bullets. These are generally listed under a caliber called 38 Super rather than 9mm. They may also show these as .001" larger than traditional 9mm bullet diameters, but that is insignificant.
Look at Black Bullet Intl, Berry Mfg, Zero, Remington, etc.