Lemming, you aren't hearing that from me. I respect the science. I also believe the results of tests.
Visualize a test. Anchor a pistol rigidly and connect it to a force transducer to measure the maximum force --straight back, as flip is eliminated with the mount.> The force transducer is mounted in a direct line behind the bbl. This is to eliminate the affect of the "felt recoil" subject to pistol design.
The only factor being measured is the resultant force straight back
With the givens, fire a 115 gr bullet with an example 8 grains of powder to achieve the speed needed to reach the power factor..
Now fire a 124 gr bullet with 6 grains of powder (may not be proportionate, but works as a sample) to achieve the speed needed.
Finally, fire a 147 gr bullet with 4 grs of powder to attain the speed needed.
My finding empirically is that the recoil is inversely proportionate to the bullet weight AS IS THE POWDER WEIGHT.
Adding to the bullet mass doesn't change the power of the ONLY "ENGINE" that drives it--THE POWDER LOAD's gas quantity and pressure generated.
With one actual example of where this doesn't hold true, I'll learn and agree to another 'truth'.
Something(s) in the math model is missing. Probably from my ignorance of the physics involved.