The ejector "rub" is normal. Nothing to worry about. Lastly, these pistols are sprung for SAAMI standard 9mm operationing pressure of 33,000 CUP (Copper Units of Pressure).
Most USA 9mm bulk is "target grade". How do you think they can make bulk ammo cheaper? Easy, with a reduced powder charge. Most of this target ammo is running around 30,000 CUP or less.
So you have to match the recoil spring to the pressure of the load.