Use the suppressor itself to tighten the 3 lug. Put the 3 lug adapter into suppressor and then put everything down the handguard and tighten. That's what I did to tighten a 3 lug adapter on my AR9 barrel and it is rock solid.
That might not be the best idea. the trilug adapter that screws on the muzzle really needs to be torqued down hard. that may cause damage to the trilug adapter on the suppressor and make it nearly impossible the separate the suppressor adapter form the can itself. the trilug setup wasn't meant to torque laterally.
Seems it's the only way to install a 3 lug adapter given his proposed set up. We are not talking 150 foot pounds of torque, 15 - 20 foot pounds should be enough or hand tight plus a little effort combined with a dab of loctite 262. This should not put any undo torque on the suppressor. At any rate this technique worked for me and I've not had any problems with the muzzle device loosening or the suppressor. Now, if he wants to remove the 3 lug mount from the barrel, the handguard will probably have to be cut off.
This is why I'm not going to do this. No way to access the barrel/suppressor at the connection point should the suppressor get carbon welded on. It looks cool, but adds undo complexity and you will be stuck at that length. You can never run it at the shortest length without removing the mounts, handguard, etc.