well I think I found a new problem, in the order of a broken trigger return spring/missing trigger return spring.
after bending the trigger bar up, that seemed to fix the hammer drop problems, I headed back to the range today to confirm. put about 50 rounds through de cocking each time and no problems at all. go to load next magazine pull trigger and it sticks to rear, does not return/reset.
i cleared the gun and headed home, after not getting charged for how short of time I was on the range. Once I got home I opened up the slide and there is no trigger return spring, it's gone, and the pin is still in place, I looked for the spring in my bag, can't find it I never saw it fall out or anything.
so I have no idea why the reduced power trigger spring would break, I've dry fired some but I've legit had the pistol 2 days.
this is slightly disheartening considering I wanted to use this as an edc piece, maybe its something I messed up but it's hard to not be a bit down.