I went lighter on my p09. This wont help at all, but I honestly just found all the threads of people saying what is worth doing and what not and trusted (no one has ever regretted trusting the internet right?!
). I put about 700 rds through it before changing anything. Mostly what I use is 115 grain. I put the 18lb in from CGW and a ton of other stuff and its running better for me, but I did a bunch all at once. I am also just getting better at shooting this thing.
It wouldn't cost much to just try it out and if you don't like it just keep it as a spare. (I ordered the 15# first and realized it was too light, again trusting the internet did not even shoot it. Now have that and the stock one as back ups)
In my head this all reads well, but also we have been drinking all day at work...