OBP,
Those of us who load, load an incredibly wide range of bullets, and you can load flat points, cones, JHP, RN, whatever, even SWC for 9mm CZ pistols. There is no bullet profile that doesn't work. I have loaded RN bullets that would fail to feed one or two out of ten, but if I loaded them .01 longer OR shorter, they would feed 100%.
So don't think flat points won't work -- they work fine. But a particular flat point might not work at a particular OAL. It seems that is what you've stumbled onto here. You have stumbled on an unfortunate combination of dimensions and geometry.