(1) In terms of precision, plated bullets aren't great. Switch to ACME or any other number of coated lead bullets or Precision Delta .355 JHP or (my ShadowLine prefers) their .356 (sold as .38 Super) FMJ, OR RMR jacketed (which I have never used, but seem quite popular). But at the end of the day, finding the bullet your pistol likes is a big part of it, and bullet to barrel fit is huge.
And that would be my first thoughts too.
As plated bullets get rushed during crisis production periods, bullet dia and quality can vary widely. I used to be a HUGE
Berry Mfg fan, but I haven't bought from them in 5 or 6 years.
• I buy
Precision Delta as my first choice, by the 3000+ lot. But PD has a bad habit of turning off their order entry when they get any ordering pressure. And sometimes, due to popularity, their order entry stays turned off for
months. There's no rhyme or reason, never an email to tell you what's going on, they simply go 'dark'.
• What I've done lately is save my 9mm PD bullets for testing and competition, and order nothing but
Rocky Mountain Reloading for everything else, including all my revolver. I really like their blunt-nosed 124gr JHP and their "Match Winner" line is also very, very nice. Their JHP works very well with the standard RN Dillon seating anvil. The Match Winner is a truncated cone with a very flat meplat, and this allows a flat seating anvil to be used for very precise OAL control.
The quality and availability of both of these is such that I haven't ordered plated, lead or coated lead in several years. RMR has really honed their internal production and delivery systems. They never stop taking orders, they offer discounts on volume, they offer discounts on "blems", and at times shipments may come as much as 4 weeks later,
but they always take your order and deliver. And, whereas PD will go "quiet" for several months at a time, RMR sends out newsletters to let you know what's going on.
Just my 2 cents.