My understanding is compact variants have heavier recoil springs than their full size counterparts, because a lighter, shorter slide firing the same round needs more resistance to avoid the slide battering the frame.
Regardless, to break in a recoil spring, store a pistol with the slide locked back for about a month. Just as storing a new mag loaded for about a month will allow you to load it without a mag loader, locking the slide back for about a month will allow you, and your wife, to rack the slide easily, even without the hammer cocked.
Your wife can learn to rack even a slide with a recoil spring that's not broken in. Search the internet for tips on how women do this. When I get my CZs in 2012 I had a left (offside) frozen shoulder that was excrutiatingly painful. I could not rack my pistols while holding them in my right hand. I found a websight by a woman (what is that?) shooter, who gave clear instructions with which even the wimpiest gal could rack a slide. It worked for me, so I believe her. It involves holding the left arm steady while grasping the slide with an overhand grip, then thrusting the frame forward with the right hand and a counterclockwise rotation of the hip. It imparted no pain to my left shoulder. I think a common problem is that racking a slide is an almost violent manuever, but many try to do it gently. I think the thought of it being a gentle action is in part fostered by competition shooters who post videos of their pistols tricked out with light recoil springs that are well broken in.