Here's one of the issues. Not saying it's yours, but.... 40S&W is a purely American cartridge. No one in Europe shoots it. On top of that, by law they can only get FMJ in Europe. No hollow points, no conicals, no Flat Points, none. So the gun was designed around and for FMJ.
So if you are not shooting FMJ, then start. When you get FMJ to feed OK, then progress to bullet shapes that mimic the FMJ very closely.
See if that helps.