Friend, it's your powder selection that makes things seem like you've been thrown into the "deep end" on your first swimming lesson.
I have been reloading 9mm for my CZs for about 9 months and have learned a ton here at this site. I have been relatively successful with 1000 PD's, 1000 Hornady's, 500 Rainier's and 250 Blue Bullets. I have used Titegroup exclusively because I bought too much of it. I do not like using it because of the narrow load window and the low case volume. I have got a mixed bag of great accuracy, easy control and clean burning but it's hard to couple these fine features together. It does feel like the Deep End. I hope to try HP-38 or some VV soon enough.