Most of the talk you see about bullet weight is about "felt" recoil and what that means to recoil control. So before I talk about bullet weight, here's something to remember:
Recoil control comes from grip and stance. Getting the next shot off quickly is a skill to be honed. So do NOT choose a bullet weight based on it being "softer" with an assumption that it will mean faster.
That's where all the internet lore you've read with people promoting heavy bullets comes from -- an assumption that softer feeling recoil means faster follow up shots, faster
split times. But faster split times come from the sights settling faster, returning faster to zero. That
might happen with a softer feeling load, or it might not, and when it does, it has nothing to do with the "feel" of the recoil. That's all much ado about nothing. 99% of the people you've seen post on the benefits of heavier bullets have never used a shot timer to compare their split times with heavier vs lighter bullets to see if those benefits are real or not. Spoiler alert: it doesn't matter.
You want a load that feels right to you and moves the pistol in a way that works for you. AND You want a load that is accurate. That's it.
That Precision Delta 124gr JHP is perhaps the best bang for your buck in terms of cost vs performance on the market. That RMR in-house 124gr JHP "MPR" may very well be its equal -- I don't know -- I haven't loaded it yet. But when you can get a quality 124gr JHP for around 9 cents per bullet shipped, that's fantastic. If you are already a fan of Precision Delta, and you're comfortable with Precision Delta, buy 2,000 of those and be done with it -- you get them for 8.9 cents each when you buy 2000 or more.
If you are comfortable loading lead or coated lead and want even better bang for your buck, I'd recommend 124/125gr coated lead bullets from BBI, Precision Bullets, or ACME Bullets, which you can typically get at or a little under 7 cents per bullet shipped when you buy by the case.
If you want a nice copper wrapping around your lead, choosing plated over Precision Delta or RMR jacketed is a downgrade. Don't bother. GO with jacketed. Jacketed > plated every time.
If you are curious to try heavier bullets, Missouri Bullet Company makes a 135gr RN intended for .38 Super that is sized .357 (instead of the normal .356), and it loads and shoots beautifully in 9mm in my 75. I believe Wobbly has also used that 135gr .38 Super bullet with good success. I'd give 135gr a try before 147gr.
But at the end of the day, I'd buy 2,000 Precision Delta 124gr JHP first.