SMSgt, he's showing the push test results---the point at which the bullet contacts the leade/lands--1.2145"
Which is close to what mine also show---a nice pointed nose and conventional ogive.
Kaiserkuda welcome to the reloading forum.
The guys above know what they are talking about.
Choosing a starting OAL is always a decision you must make depending on the tests you ran in your pistol (s). which gives the limits you have to work with.
The "Load Data" gives results they found with their published OAL. If you load LONGER than their OAL then no harm. The pressures will be LOWER in the case. If you load SHORTER than their oal, the pressures will be higher in the case. For big decreases in OAL a decrease in the powder load may be needed to stay safe.
I've heard a few different reccomendations for OAL ranging from 1.100 to 1.150. From researching threads here, 1.140 might be a good place to start with the Berry 124gr RN?
JMO: Remember there are "TWO" Berry's 124gr "RN" bullets. Yours is the "Berry's" 124gr "HBRN". I doubt VERY much anyone is loading THAT particular bullet at 1.100". The load range in the data gives a safe starting point for minor changes (shorter) in OAL.
.04" ISN'T a minor change.
I fully agree with Wobbly about the taper Crimp. The taper crimp should completely close the belled casemouth to full bullet contact---no gaps and no damage to the bullet. My thought on your pics of the bullet damage, is that the bullet was indented and the case mouth sprung back open slightly after the excessive crimp.
As Wobbly and Riptide said. .377"-.378" should work fine with your .356" bullet in any standard 9mm brass case.